Kaitlyn Bernath
Trust is so important in life. Having trust develops a foundation, a new start, a beginning to something more that is or will come. Trust is a very important part to every relationship. Trust is one of the many things you need to have in a relationship. If you’re starting a relationship first you need to love the person, you cannot just pick someone up of the street and want to marry them, and you need to build a relationship first. Trust is included in building an actual relationship. You need love, faith, strength, and you need to be yourself.
Trust is when you can tell your spouse, or even friend, or lover etc. everything, and when I say everything I mean everything. You should be able to tell them what exactly your doing, where exactly you are, where you have been, what you are doing and what you have done. You should be able to tell them your life story including everything ion your past from birth to the current time. You shouldn’t have to even think about what you’re telling them, and all along you need to be you. You shouldn’t fall in love with someone you cannot have fun around or can’t tell everything to. You need to be with someone in whom the first spark you felt when you met them still remains. Think about it, when you are with someone who you’ve been with for 30 years, and you still feel the same way about them as you did when you first met 30 years ago, they were meant for you, and it’s most likely true love which cannot be replaced.
Trust is being able to rely on the person you love, and the assurance that they will always be with you no matter what. Trust is the first step in a relationship it’s the base on which your relationship grows. If you don’t have trust, you have nothing. Trust is an important part of any relationship, not just your relationship with your boyfriend/girlfriend or fiancé or spouse.
Trust in Friendships is also extremely important. If you don’t have a friend you can confide in completely, and tell absolutely anything to, you feel helpless. Friends you can trust are ones to encourage you and help you through everything that hurts you, and sometimes they become part of you. My best friend is someone I can confide in completely, I can tell her anything. Luckily I also have more people I can confide in, but sometimes there are things I can tell my best friend that I don’t even want to tell my mother. Friends are really important to me, and being able to trust in them is just as important. If I know I can’t trust in someone, I don’t like to be around them. If I was to stick around them and accidentally tell them something really important to me and they told someone else, I would be extremely mad.
Some other people you should be able to trust in are your family. Family is very important, it means the world to me, but if there is someone in my family I can’t trust, why would I want to be around them. Family is someone who should always be there for you and always tell you the truth. Sometimes friends will tell you things that will make you feel better but aren’t necessarily true. I believe if you want to have any kind of relationship with anyone, you need to flat out tell them the truth. It is wrong to sit there and lie to their face. Anyways, family should be the first people you go to when you have a problem. I would first go to my mom or dad, or step-mom or grandma, the people who have always been there for me.
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